What if..?

What if all the life's losses are meant to help you let go of that which is holding you back, and you cannot seem to let go of by your own choice?
What if that is just the guiding and assistive spirit of the almighty taking from you what you need to let go of, but have not learned to recognize that fact yet?
What if those things to be left aside are items of misappropriated importance,  actual stumbling blocks and anchors, impeding your movement forward and growth beyond your current plateau?
What if the pain of loss is just a corrective reminder to not hold on, that doing so is wrong aiming?
What if the moments of realization and life that strike so deeply as to inspire awe, are truly transcendentally important, and the physiological effects are meant to punctuate the moment.. like the glove slap to remind you of your oath..?